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By Francesca Merlo - Paris, France

115 million girls are out of school. Less than 3% of humanitarian funding goes to organisations working on women empowerment. Only 5% of the world’s CEOs are women.

These are some of the staggering figures highlighted by the speakers during the first day of the conference “The Full Face of Humanity: Women in Leadership for a just society”, organised by the Permanent Observer Mission of the Holy See to UNESCO and Caritas Internationalis, under the patronage of UNESCO.

Goals of Paris conference

The conference, taking place on 27-28 October, has three main aims, as stressed in opening remarks of the conference on Thursday in Paris' UNESCO building.

These include: to explore the challenges for women at all levels of society; to focus on the barriers that prevent women from accessing leadership and decision-making positions; and to propose concrete strategies on how to contribute to eliminating these barriers.

Support of Pope Francis for women worldwide

Representing the Holy See, Cardinal Secretary of State Pietro Parolin offered a keynote address and spoke about the role of education, and the values of femininity as a gift for humanity.

In this regard, the Cardinal noted that educational disparities are “often linked to income, race and various situations of vulnerability that still make many girls and young women marginalised individuals."

He stressed that without the right to education, any discussion on the promotion of women “risks being an empty exercise in rhetoric”.

Considering women from the point of view of education, he said, means emphasising the fundamental importance of the processes of human, spiritual, intellectual and professional growth that enable them to insert themselves in society on a par with men.

Moreover, continued Cardinal Parolin, "it is on these processes that States should have the courage to invest, thus reversing the embarrassing and asymmetrical relationship between public spending on education and the funds allocated to armaments."

He highlighted how true this is today, in a time in which education is "at the mercy of a profound crisis with an uncertain future, exacerbated by the devastating consequences of the Covid-19 pandemic and an extremely dangerous geopolitical scenario, where too many girls and women continue to pay the price."

Cardinal Parolin also used the time to thank, on behalf of the Holy Father, the dedication of so many educators and workers present in the remotest corners of the earth: "most of whom are women, both religious and lay." 

The Vatican's Secretary of State concluded by recalling that "although reflection on the advancement of women has contributed to great successes, much remains to be done."

Women: penalised by discrimination

Also representing the Holy See was Msgr Eric Soviguidi, Permanent Observer of the the Holy See to UNESCO. He opened his speech by highlighting how women are penalised by discrimination, a thought that was reiterated shortly after by Ambassador Nancy Ovelar de Gorostiaga, Permanent Delegate of Paraguay to UNESCO.

She warned that we all suffer the consequences of this inequality and discrimination, which touches women, indigenous peoples, migrants and refugees, and people with disabilities. The reality, stressed Ms. Ovelar de Gorostiaga, is that “opportunities for people in life depend on their gender, their race, their religion, and whether they have a disability”.

Women make up half of the world’s population, and “to throw away the potential of half of humanity is unfair and inhumane,” she said.

Women in Caritas

Caritas Internationalis Secretary General, Aloysius John, recognised the work that still needs to be done within Caritas to empower women.

Currently, 53% of Caritas staff consists of women alone, but “we also need to move a bit further, to enable women to take bigger positions in the confederation,” he noted.

Violence against women

Those attending the conference then heard some harrowing testimonies, in particular that of Jasvinder Sanghera, a survivor of a forced marriage.

She told of the alienation she received from her family when she chose to leave the abusive marriage she had been forced into. Even when she attended the funeral of her 25-year-old sister, who killed herself because of the abuse she was receiving from her own husband, also from a forced marriage, her mother announced that she preferred to have her daughter end her own life rather than dishonour her family by leaving her husband.

Jasvinder Sanghera highlighted how many women and young girls live through this even today, and how people around the world do not speak of this issue enough. 

Another form of violence highlighted came from Christina Lamb, a war journalist, who noted what seems to be an "epidemic" of rape and violence in conflict. Rape is the one crime in which victims feel as though they are the ones to have done something wrong, and many of these live in shame for decades, unable of speaking of what happened to them, afraid of judgement.

"Victims and survivors need to be treated with dignity and not to be made feel as if they have done something wrong," she stressed. 

Often women are abducted and kept as sex slaves, for example in Syria, noted Ms. Lamb. Many of them, she added, are being forced to choose between their children, who are not being accepted by the communities, and going back to their homes. This, Ms. Lamb said, is where faith-based leaders can come forward and help give a voice to these women in their moment of need. 

Looking to the future

On Friday, the conference will reconvene in the Paris venue on the theme "Looking to the future".

Speakers will address the ways in which the barriers that are currently standing can be broken down, as well as how to equip women with the tools necessary to trust in themselves and be confident enough to lead, through education and capacity strengthening - from local to global levels.